You already have everything you need to become who you were designed to be in eternity, time, and space; they are already built into the life in you.
Don't try to please everybody. First of all, you can't. Secondly, that's a recipe for certain failure and frustration. Thirdly, you'll go crazy. Don't live your life trying to get everyone to like and compliment your efforts; thats a formula for a life of misery and frustration. I don't care how good or experienced anyone is, you must reserve your right to dismiss their so-called expert opinions. Expertise has often been a mask for arrogant ignorance.